Diary of a Sick Kid (from a BAD Mom)

Am I a BAD Mom?  I am starting to wonder.  The treatment that I have experienced in the past 24 hours from Family and Friends is making me feel as if I did something wrong. 

I have kids.  Kids, who are sick ... A LOT!  We started with this coughing crap (pardon my french..but that is what it is!) on the 18th.  I debated every morning...do I let my five year old go to school or do I keep her home.  I chose to let her go.  We talked and I found that a) she is not the ONLY kid sick at school and b) it is 2 days and then break. 



The sickness followed well into her break, through Christmas Eve and Christmas Day even.  Long days.  She was wore out and it showed.  She was a trooper though- cranky, but not to bad and she knew when to fold 'em and head her butt to bed for some rest!



So, that brings us to Monday.  We had a sick weekend.  We laid low, relaxed, watched movies and she was carrying a less than normal appetite. We tried to just get food in her belly...broth, tomato soup, spaghetti o's.  Anything she liked that was warm and easy to eat/drink and would provide substance but not weight in her sensitive belly. 

I called first thing in the morning to the Peds office. Busy....  I tried again... Busy... I decided to get sneaky and find another number. BINGO!  It was shortly after 10 when I finally got through, thanks to my Super Mom Detective work, and tried to pull the feel sorry for me and just write me a script...please!  No go.  But, we did get an appointment for early afternoon, same day! 

Off to pick up my girls and head to the office.  Surprisingly happy, my children were, and sat pretty well while we waited for my oldest's name to be called. 

Off to the room we go.  Number 13...as my daughter pointed out. I have no idea what the significance is, but she made a mention of it twice, so it must mean something to her. As the nurse is going through the motions she notices that my youngest is stuffy as well and lucky for me, pulled her chart for a quick go over with our doc too! 




At last, the Doc comes in.  She is good.  I mean on the level with my kids, asking them what they got for Christmas and not looking to me for answers. (If you are a MOM, you get this.. It's a language thing)




The News...

My oldest jumps on the table and Doc starts listening to her "deep breaths" and then I hear it... "Oh, it's Pneumonia" - OK...I was like "OH NO."  I am sure my face said it all.  Fear, scared, concern- all bubbled from me. She reassures me that this flu season has been one for the books, even telling me that her average for pneumonia is 5 cases PER WEEK.  That is insane.

 

Then comes my youngest and I swear I prayed and prayed audibly.  Lucky for us, she just has a cold. And let's hope it does not develop into anything further.



Our PLAN of ACTION.

My oldest is under an antibiotic (without penicillin, since last year around this time we found out she was allergic!) and breathing treatments on the Neb, 4 times a day.  You can image how this went over.  We have had the Neb since last year, when my then, two year old, had to use it.  My big girl was NOT HAPPY about this news.  It took a little tough love and explaining that she has a lung infection and we either do our breathing treatments or we are heading to the hospital for a stay. "OK Mom, I will do these Breathing Treatments, anything to not have to go to the Hospital!"  


We are now in day 2 and we are noticing some changes with her. Color is good, cough is getting better and she seems almost back to normal.  We have a recheck on Friday, and I have been sending a lot of prayers up for this to be behind us. 

Friends are now telling me that once you have pneumonia, your chances of getting again are high, or anything respiratory in nature. EEK!  I am still in utter shock that my five year old has pneumonia.  It is terrifying. I make her bundle up to even go near the outside air- scarf over mouth, hat and hood up, gloves on.  It's no joke there.

But, when we do our recheck and hoping all is good to go - I will be asking about the Pneumonia Vaccine- which honestly, up until a day ago, I had NEVER even heard of. 


Word from a Mother:  

If you kid is sick, maybe it IS best to take them to the Docs- better safe than sorry.  All I keep thinking is that if I had taken her in at the beginning of the week, maybe it would not have turned into pneumonia at all.  I guess that is the should-a  could-a would-a talking.

I wish all of you LUCK during this season.  I think it is going to be BRUTAL!

Until the new year! 

~Kel

T swift Mashup and its effin Ah-Mazin

If you have NOT checked this out yet...prepare yourself! 

Its the best thing I have seen and even has T SWIFT herself going twitter crazy over it! 

Well...what are you waiting for....

  

CLICK HERE:

Blank Space // Style (Taylor Swift Mash-Up)

So, who is responsible for this totally awesome mash up?  

Nashville-based singer Louisa Wendorff enlisted her friend Devin Dawson to help sing an acoustic mashup of Swift's 1989 hits "Style" and "Blank Space." 

The clip was uploaded on Dec. 23 but didn't get that much traction until Swift herself Tweeted out a link to it four days later, saying she was "obsessed." 

Would that not be AMAZING!!

In response, we find a pic of Louisa on Twitter:

With the caption "What is Life?!?" - I am sure she is asking herself this all to often now.  

Be sure to check her out on YouTube and her album is on ITunes also! 

Arrow- Louisa Wendorff

And last but NOT least- check out her website: 

http://www.louisawendorff.com/  

where you can WATCH/ BUY and JOIN her mailing list! 

This girl is one to watch!  She has a ton of great songs in her portfolio and definitely had our family in awww of her talent and beautiful vocals!

I can't wait to see where the future takes her!! (And yes, I approve, I endorse and I will promote!) 

~Kel

Christmas Break.... December 22nd-January 5th

Be back in January!  

With kids off of school and taking some much needed time off of work...Hubby is on shutdown- so we are going to turn off the cell phones...the computers...the tablets... and enjoy some family time! 

Don't worry! If you enjoy my Blog, I will be back December 5th with tons of updates on our holiday...our life and our projects!  I am working on pictures as we speak!  We have been BUSY working on Gray Gables Farm!

Happy Holidays ALL!

~Kel

It's beginning to look a lot like...

Christmas?

Ehh....I am trying so hard to whip this place into shape.  It has been such a long road to even get to where we are sitting right now.

Pictures of our girls in the living room.

Chandelier in the Dining Room

Last night my Hubby hung the pictures on the bare walls, hung my valance and curtain rod in the dining room and I took on the challenge of cleaning the disgustingly dirty windows.  It started off super exciting.  I mean, I have brand new Hanson windows in this house and they are the ones that you hit the button and can clean both sides because they POP out!  

How wonderful...ly...awkward!  

Mirror over entry table
and Otis too!

I mean, to clean the top outside you have to POP the bottom one and have the top lean on that one and doing this by myself was NOT THE WAY TO GO!  But, I fought through the challenge and came out on top!  Cleanest windows around!

Living room picture hung!

I am happy with the way things are shaping up.  We have a lot to do still, as we are hosting Christmas at our house- it's an HONOR and our FIRST time!   I have been OVER and OVER my Menu and OVER again!.

Dining Chairs

On our agenda tonight - recovering these 1890 Jacobean style dining chairs.  Wish us luck!  I have pinned a bunch of things- so here's hoping to a success on our quest!













I will be signing off for a while during the holidays, but have no fear, I will return and have pictures and content to share (to say the least!).

Happy Holidays from OUR FAMILY to YOURS!

Merry Christmas and HAPPY NEW YEAR!  (2015 is going to be the BEST year yet!)

~KEL

Christmas Video Shares!

Hi All!

I guess today is shaping to be ALL ABOUT KIDS!

I made a video for Christmas and thought I would share with my Blogging Universe!

Our Family Christmas Video 2014

Merry Christmas All!

~Kel

The MUSIC stopped...

This post is going to be rather boring for those who don't have children, irrelevant to those, perhaps that do.  The purpose of my blog started with these little girls that I get to call my own!  While, I love hitting crazy topics, fun stuff and everything in between, but my sole purpose was to leave something behind for them to have that was ME.  Something that dealt with my feelings, my thoughts, my memories and it was perfect timing as we have this huge old house that is OUR focus! 



So, this post is going to be about my girls. (as many are!)



Thursday, December 18th 2014

You can home from school and I could tell the minute you got off that yellow bus that something was wrong.  You were not quite yourself.  You really have not been this whole week, but today was different.  The air was thick...the world was quiet. 

The MUSIC stopped. 

The Music that is YOU stopped. 



We walked inside the warm house (as it was snowing off and on all day but no accumulation) and you were talking about me not being able to see what was in your folder. I thought it was a Christmas gift for Dad and I, since you said he couldn't look when I suggested that he help you with it. We ordered you upstairs to take care of it.  You said something about it having to stay in there until Monday...  This made us look at each other, your Dad and I and I think it hit us both at the same time...Your BEHAVIOR Chart. 


We needed to see it...demanded to see it and you instantly started to cry.  My poor girl got BLUE... You were on a Green Streak (Green is the best) and have NEVER gotten anything but green.  You were devastated.  I was shocked.  

We did not yell.  We did not reprimand you.  We TALKED.  We knew it has something to do with the bathroom....as your Teacher put Not Making Good Decisions in the Bathroom.  You said your BFF crawled under the stalls into your locked stall while you were going potty and you did not have enough time to get out of the stall before your Teacher came into the bathroom.  Then you said that your Teacher said you were arguing with her.  I bet you were.  You knew that the consequence was not getting Green for the day. 




I must admit that I am trying to believe her.  I feel that if things went down the way she is saying...swearing they did, that this is a little unjust- but maybe she got a warning and argued and had to get Blue?  Our advise to her was if that happens again, tell her BFF that she does NOT want to get in trouble and move to another stall.  




We all moved on.  Her Dad and I, although shocked, moved on.  It really is no big deal, we make a mistake and we learned - all good, right!  









Well, tell that to a sensitive five year old who spent the rest of the night in tears because of this consequence to her actions.  She had a hard time getting to sleep because it was bothering her so much.  As I said, my poor girl!  I tried to tell her that it was a lesson and we learned from it.  I tried to sing "Let it Go" to her and told her to follow Elsa's advice here. 

She woke up this morning still harboring her feelings for her mistake.  

This was one tough lesson to learn, I guess, for her. 

I am proud of her for telling the truth to us, even if she did initially try to HIDE it.  I am a little disturbed that she is  not letting it go and hoping that today, she gets Green and can move on.  I don't want her to be the type of person that seeks perfection and can not handle constructive criticism, if that makes sense.  Feelings were hurt, I get that, she understands why but she strongly believes that she could not have gotten out of the stall before her Teacher came in because she was struggling with the lock.  It is one of those situations where you say I'm sorry and move on because it really is a lose/lose battle!

Lessons learned. 

Plus, it's almost time for the Big Guy to come down the Chimney!  Last day of school/last day of work for Hubby and I and we are in operation tie up the lose ends!

~KEL

My Big Girl- the one who holds the world on her shoulders....

The actions of others DOES matter in this WORLD...

This post is a serious one...one that hurts, one that involves the death of innocent children... One that the news kept brief in my opinion- maybe because it is not on US soil?  Perhaps because US people are not affected, but does that change anything?  

Blood stains the floor of the Pakistan Army Public School in Peshawar, attacked by Taliban Gunman...

I am talking about the latest Taliban Attack on the Pakistan Army Public school.  The images sicken me to my core. Those are children... They are the children of the Pakistan Army, the innocent ones in a society that is seriously EFF'ed up to be quite FRANK.  

148 people dead after being gunned down.  I mean, think about that... They were going about their school day when the Taliban gunman ATTACKED - going into the school and I would say causing chaos but I think more appropriate than that is they KILLED!   They HUNTED.  It gives me chills to even think about it.  To look at the pictures released by the Media is horrific. To think that this is what the violence has come to- killing children.  

The overturned furniture throughout the school and bullet holes puncturing the walls.

They did not stop until they sought death on all.  Including themselves... They took the high road, the easy way out - ANIMALS that they were.  Is torture enough?  Is killing them in cold blood enough for these Taliban Gunman?  I think NOT.  I am outraged, I am hurt, I am grieving for those family..for those mothers who sent their children to school yesterday, not knowing that that was the last time they would see their child.  

I know that some opinions are that this happened in Pakistan, and that they live in violence- but I feel that this is pushing the limits.  

What are they supposed to do? 

I mean, think about it.  There is this group that stops at nothing and kills everything/everyone, trying to overrun the Government and you are STUCK.  You can't come to America...It is not an option....what do you do?   I'll tell you...You try to LIVE a decent life. You join the Pakistan Army and try to stop it, try to find the good...and then YOUR child is killed by those who you thought you were protecting them from. 

Beginning of the 3 day mourning period- declared by Pakistan's Government.

Perspective my friends...

I am showing the media pictures because THIS IS REALITY...It is not TV, it is not some story about a girl who parties to much...It is about DEATH.. It is not kind, it is not easy, it will upset your stomach- but it is real. 

#PeshawarAttack
Words are not needed...powerful image.

Prayers to the families during this awful time.  I don't know, as a Mother, how you go forward.  This is tragedy at its best.

#heavyhearttoday
#theywerechildren
#eyeforeye
#PeshawarAttack

~Kel

Pictures from Reuters/NaveshChitrakar from Yahoo News.