Birthday Party- Syndrome...

Today we celebrated my kiddo's 5th Birthday- equipped with Frozen Birthday cake and all.  We were supposed to start at Noon- but, unfortunately, Mother Nature had her own ideas.  We had to postpone until after two. But, none the less, the party must go on, it isn't everyday that my kiddo will be five, right!

(Ok, so we have been celebrating since Tuesday - longest birthday EVER!)

So, we delayed for weather- then, the unthinkable happened.  I knew something was up because the past few days my downstairs has been COLD! At night- it has been COLD. I really didn't think anything of it because I assumed the FCE was kicking on.  Apparently, I am a moron. It was registering 47* - are you effin' kidding me! I was in PANIC mode.  Then, Hubby tells me that when he got home this morning it was throwing a code and he was up late trying to reset it. Say, What?

So, we had to call off the party. What a day!  Anyways, shortly there after, and a frustrated Hubby taking a bit of agitation out of me and my only question- "So, you don't know what is wrong with it?" and his reply, " Um, No, I am not a furnace guy so I don't. Just cancel the effin' party." This is where I walked away. Disappointed.

Then, he figured it out. - And he said he wasn't a furnace guy... ha.  Then it was getting the temp up, to a comfortable 68* which is where it usually sits down there while upstairs is a modest 73*.  This house is crazy!

But, all in all, the Party MUST go on.. And it did. Our guests started to arrive at 2:15 PM, pizza delivered by 2:45 PM promptly.  We ate, we talked, presents were open (and good ones- Thank you EVERYONE!) and Cake was cut.  Oh, don't forget that Chocolate Chip Ice Cream and Superman Ice Cream!

I think she had a great party.  Her BFF was here too. They dressed up like Frozen Characters and it was a blast.

Now, they are tucked into bed, toys put away (yes, all of them had to be opened tonight- DUH!) and I am settling in for my season's return of The Walking Dead and I can not wait!  (Insert SCREAM here- with Jumping Up and Down- ok, arms are flalling too...)

Now it is time to start planning a Minnie Mouse Party for a BIG 3rd Birthday... Whew, I am so glad it is NOT until April...

30 Day Challenge- Day #21- One of your Favorite Shows

Day #21- One of your Favorite Shows

I am an advid TV watcher, I totally confess.  I usually have a line up in the fall.  I have a lot of Favorites but I have one show that changed my life.  Drumroll please.... That show being, One Tree Hill. 

Ok, Stop Laughing! I started watching this show when it first aired, I had just started dating my Hubby.  I was mesmorized by the characters.  I loved the North Carolina setting and just pretty fresh out of High School myself, I could relate.

I watched this show through my marriages, which it just so happened that Nathan and Hailey were getting hitched around the same time.  I watched through my first born, which Nathan and Hailey were having Jaime around the same time.  I just watched.  I laughed, I cryed (alot!) and I just became "friends" with the cast.  I hated when it ended.  I will admit one other thing- I have every season on DVD. True Story.

On a side note, I loved watching Christmas on the Bayou and seeing Hilary and Tyler together.  I know it wasn't Hailey, but it was just a reminder of what once way at Tree Hill.  I also saw another show, I am blanking on what it was, and the cast was together there also. -Darn it, old age sucks!

Man, I think I am going to have to put in the DVD's now- walk down memory lane.

(I know Hubby is so proud right now...um, not)

Miss them..

Today is my Baby's 5th Birthday!

I can not believe that my Hubby and I have a 5 year old!!  Of course, my little lady wants a FROZEN party and finding Frozen party stuff was nothing short of a NIGHTMARE!  Luckily, i was able to find plates, table clothes and such online- or we would be doing plain white paper plates- ain't that cute!
But have no fear, super Mom is here!  Found everything we needed,cheaper than the stores- now if it could just get here!

I remember that day my Girl was born like it was just yesterday!
Time is moving to fast.

Baby Girl,
I am SO proud of you and the girl you are becoming!
You are a star in the dark sky, twinkling brighter than all the rest. 

Who LOVES old school movies? How many have you watched in the past 2 days?

I love old movies that I haven't seen in a long time and I am SO pleased to say that last night I was able to catch "Practical Magic" - and yes, it made me tear up. I hate it when her Hubby dies and she wants her Aunts to bring him back.
Tonight, I was able to watch "He's just not that into you" - I think that is the title. 

Why is it that we love to catch these old flicks? 

I don't watch movies often.  I still have "The Great Gatsby" sitting in the plastic that I have had since the beginning of December. (how sad- and I LOVE Leo- he looks/reminds me of my Hubby so MUCH)

I have my all-time fav- "Sweet Home Alabama"- could NOT even tell you how many times I have watched it.  I literally know the words to each and every frame.

Hope I can find some others this weekend- makes me feel giddy!!!

30 Day Challenge- Day #20 How Important you think Education is

Day #20 How Important you think Education is

I know a lot of you are saying, seriously, she is still at this 30 day challenge.. I know, right. It seems as if it is talking FOREVER!  But we are at day 20- so we are almost there... Then, sadly enough, I have another one I am dying to break into!

Anyhooo- Education.  Well, this is going to be a shocker!  I went to college for 4 years, yes, 4 entire years, in the Education field. It wasn't until the second semester of my 4th year that I had just finished with a hard nosed professor who basically in not so nice terms, told me that I would never amount to anything being a teacher, that I broke down and panicked to say the least. 

I had almost all of my English Core knocked out and Social Studies and was super pumped- until that.  The saddest thing is that I went to class everyday, did all my assignments with my whole heart and my good friend nailed everything but never went to class and her assignments were ALWAYS late. He adored her. Blah.

So, needless to say, Point Kel.. Education was my life at one point.  I have a passion for it.  I think that it is essential to be anyone now a days.  My children started with basics with me as early as age 2 and we work with workbooks and ABC Mouse to help learn the fundamentals.  I enjoy it also. 

This fall is a big one for our family, my 5 yo will be starting Kindergarten.  I am totally scared to death!  It is a big step and I am freaking out because I miss PreK so much now with working that I am determined to work at home to be able to take her to school and pick her up and be apart of her life during her education. I think that it is important for me to be one of those Moms who is active in the schools and who can have the time to delegate towards homework help.

I have thought a lot about going back to school to finish my teaching certifications but every time I get going something comes up and it always gets pushed to the back burner.  I am like that with a lot of things. I put my own stuff on hold to make sure my family is tended to. I just started some education recently online and I am making time for it.  I think it is important to show my kids that I am trying to be a better person. I am trying to find my dreams and make them reality and it takes work and dedication, but hopefully it pays off in the end.

30 Day Challenge- Day #19 Disrespecting your Parents.

Day #19- Disrespecting your Parents

How fitting, wouldn't you say!  I have been having a lot of "issues" with my Parents over the past 2 years and during this time I have heard them harp on how DISRESPECTFUL my Hubby and Myself are to them.  I don't really know what their definition of Disrespectful is, because, frankly, I think that if nothing else, we have been nothing but respectful.  They have tried to run our show on this entire project and by us voicing our opinions/wants/dreams- we are acting disrespectfully towards them. I still feel anger and laughter by this because these past two years have been nothing short of HELL and they have no idea that they are behind that agony.

I have in the past perhaps been disrespectful towards my parents.  I used to fight with my Mom constantly, to the point that I HAD TO MOVE OUT to help both of our sanity. We just never got along.  I think it has something to do with the Controlling aspects of her personality, if I might say.  I don't like to be controlled. Amazing, right!  I like to make my own mistakes, live my own life, experience things for myself.  I have never been one to not do something because they told me not to.  I was 18 and I had a set of wheels- but it really wasn't mine- it was still my parents and my Mom never let me forget it.  Well, I was working, and I really wanted my OWN car. I was paying for my gas and insurance and really wanted the added responsibility of a car payment- I know, dumb kid, right!  My Mom wanted to sell the car I was driving, so we went to look at Chevy Cavaliers.  She was so NOT on board.  She just wanted to harp about how good I have it and she is making sure that I don't have to have this type of responsibility.  I had to BEG and she was still adamant, NO!  Well, then there was my OLD Dad.  I say that because the Dad I had then was not the Dad I have now.  He is the same man- just not the same guy I grew up with...  He was all for it- he even stepped up to co-sign for me when my Mom said NO.
That was the BEST thing I ever did!  Yes, I had bills. Yes, I had to work.  But it made me work harder, I knew I had to pay those bills.  Plus, I no longer gave my Mom the leverage of holding the car over my head.  I did great with it, made every payment and at the end of my Lease Agreement, I handed the keys over and walked away, into another car payment and a car that I got all on my own!
I guess, in a way, I had Disrespected my Mom in this case. But, I also bettered myself in the process. I prepared myself, handled my responsibilities and even made the way for how i handle my bills/responsibilities today.

This is tough to handle thinking of myself as a Parent though.  I only have a 5 YO and 2 YO, but they are growing up everyday.  I am at the stage where we are "learning" what is respectful and disrespectful.  I have been trying to teach my 5yo to watch her tone and attitude and instilling in her that she would not like for me to talk to her like that so therefore she should talk to me how she would like me to talk to her.  I think that the whole respect thing does go both ways. After all, right now, I am the example.

Let's see where we are in 5 more years with Disrespecting Parents- me being the Parent!!!

30 Day Challenge- Day 18- Your Beliefs

Day #18- Your Beliefs

Oh, this one is another one of those controversial questions!  I do believe in GOD.  I do not practice the whole Church thing.  I do believe in what the Democrats stand for, however, I do not believe in all of what they say.  I try to stay opened eared to both sides and usually end up somewhere in between, but favor Democrats and what they stand for a bit more.
I do believe in GUNS. I hold my CCW with pride. I know how to handle my firearm, taking the 12 hour class and practicing, learning about my firearm and others. I will protect myself if need be.  I will protect my family if need be. 
I do believe in an eye for an eye, but I do believe in getting all- ALL the facts before that belief is recognized.

I do not like the fact that our government is spying on our every move, but understand that with technology, we have made it that much more easier for them to do so.

I also believe in home schooling and wish I could teach my own children. (but the school system is just fine also)

I also believe in a woman's place vs. a man's place.  I am on my own journey this year to find out the role I am supposed to play as a wife and mother.  I lack on the wife part and have really been working to step it up. I know that I have responsibilities to the house that I must stack on top of my other responsibilities.  I know that I am to care for my children, and honestly, wouldn't want it any other way.  I hate when my kids are not here.  I feel that I was put here to serve them, no matter how crazy they make me. And when I say serve, I do not mean wait on them hand and foot, I am here as a teacher to educate them in life lessons and skills. This job is one I do take very seriously.

I believe in Freedom of speech, and across the board wages, not man vs woman.  I think that our world has evolved, but our county has not grown. I believe in Gay Marriages.  I think that everyone should have equal rights and if that is the lifestyle chosen, you should be able to do as I do.  I believe in legalization of Marijuana.  Marijuana regulated by the Government is going to be safer than street Mary Jane and could/will help stabilize our dreadful economy. I don't see how Cigarettes are legal but weed is not?
Most importantly, and maybe cliche- I believe in MYSELF!  I know that I can be a great Mother and Wife by 2014 's end.  I want to stay at home, working of course, and know that this year I can and WILL make this happen!  I am more determined than EVER.