30 day Challenge- Day #23 - Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous who you find attractive.

Day #23- Give Pictures of 5 guys who are famous who you find attractive.

Ooh- finally some FUN!

My List starting with Hottie #5: Channing- YUM...  

 

Hottie #4: Donnie... My Favorite New Kid...

 

Hottie #3: Travis Barker... Drum on Drummer-boy...  LOVE his Tattoos...

 

Hottie #2: Freddie Prince Jr.. 

 

And LAST BUT NOT LEAST... #1 is Leo... God he reminds me SOOO much of my Hubby... 

 

My list is probably boring- but I'm OLD! Gosh I love Leo- I could look at him all the time! HA HA

30 Day Challenge- Day #22- How have you changed in the past 2 Years?

Day #22- How have you changed in the past  2 Years?

This is when I say, Ooooh, good question!

The past two years have been crazy.  We, obviously, had a baby around 2 years ago, we bought a crap ass house that we are still fixing up (I say that because it only someone could have seen this place when we first looked at it- OMG, it was in BAD shape) and we were starting our Parental drama around this time. That is just some of the stressful things I was dealing with.  I was still a pretty fresh Mama, learning to deal with a 2 yo and Newbie, pretty much on my own, while I also worked full time. Hubby was dedicated to the new house and putting in hours, he was also putting in epoxy floors here and there and would be gone for 18 hour days. It  was crazy.

I handled a lot of stuff better with Baby #2 then #1, but it was still stressful. I also started getting White Hairs popping up in my head around this time.  My 2 yo was acting out real bad also. - I think back and wonder how I survived...better yet, how did she? Whoa, those were rough times.  I read a lot of self help books on parenting and tried a lot of different parenting techniques with her.  She is the child that doesn't care how you feel, what affect her actions have on you, she is going to do it because she wants to and that is that. Very Stubborn. (my other one is very much the opposite- she worries about my feelings- requiring totally different parenting styles)

I think that I can honestly say that I have mellowed since then.  I take each day at a time and I have really let go of the reins on my schedule. (Yes, I was the schedule Nazi Mom)  I let a lot of stuff roll and stop and think before I react (learn by mistakes) - and I also take Mommy Time Outs.  Its a surprise to me that I do not drink!

I was very uptight and TIRED back then, so I was not a stellar wife. I haven't been for a while now and that was one of my new years resolutions. I am working on this- day by day! Who knew being a Better Wife was so tough.  I think that I have relaxed in our relationship as well- in a good way.  I try to not resent all the burdens of my life and react in a negative way towards him and remember the little things- not pointing them out when/if he doesn't notice.  I also have been learning how to be a better listening and engage in the conversation. (even if I have no idea what he is talking about when it comes to a part on a car!)

I have changed my looks.  Revamped my wardrobe- which is ever changing.  I get on my workout/eat right kicks a lot- which is new for me (damn these 2 kids killing my body!)

As a person, I have come out of my shell a little.  I am still VERY shy, but I am determined and get pretty vocal.  I also have learned that I do not like to be told when/how to do things, say things etc.  I am desperetly trying to be ME and my own person.

The best parts of me are Hubby and my girls.  I live for my ladies. I am a Mom.

Birthday Party- Syndrome...

Today we celebrated my kiddo's 5th Birthday- equipped with Frozen Birthday cake and all.  We were supposed to start at Noon- but, unfortunately, Mother Nature had her own ideas.  We had to postpone until after two. But, none the less, the party must go on, it isn't everyday that my kiddo will be five, right!

(Ok, so we have been celebrating since Tuesday - longest birthday EVER!)

So, we delayed for weather- then, the unthinkable happened.  I knew something was up because the past few days my downstairs has been COLD! At night- it has been COLD. I really didn't think anything of it because I assumed the FCE was kicking on.  Apparently, I am a moron. It was registering 47* - are you effin' kidding me! I was in PANIC mode.  Then, Hubby tells me that when he got home this morning it was throwing a code and he was up late trying to reset it. Say, What?

So, we had to call off the party. What a day!  Anyways, shortly there after, and a frustrated Hubby taking a bit of agitation out of me and my only question- "So, you don't know what is wrong with it?" and his reply, " Um, No, I am not a furnace guy so I don't. Just cancel the effin' party." This is where I walked away. Disappointed.

Then, he figured it out. - And he said he wasn't a furnace guy... ha.  Then it was getting the temp up, to a comfortable 68* which is where it usually sits down there while upstairs is a modest 73*.  This house is crazy!

But, all in all, the Party MUST go on.. And it did. Our guests started to arrive at 2:15 PM, pizza delivered by 2:45 PM promptly.  We ate, we talked, presents were open (and good ones- Thank you EVERYONE!) and Cake was cut.  Oh, don't forget that Chocolate Chip Ice Cream and Superman Ice Cream!

I think she had a great party.  Her BFF was here too. They dressed up like Frozen Characters and it was a blast.

Now, they are tucked into bed, toys put away (yes, all of them had to be opened tonight- DUH!) and I am settling in for my season's return of The Walking Dead and I can not wait!  (Insert SCREAM here- with Jumping Up and Down- ok, arms are flalling too...)

Now it is time to start planning a Minnie Mouse Party for a BIG 3rd Birthday... Whew, I am so glad it is NOT until April...

30 Day Challenge- Day #21- One of your Favorite Shows

Day #21- One of your Favorite Shows

I am an advid TV watcher, I totally confess.  I usually have a line up in the fall.  I have a lot of Favorites but I have one show that changed my life.  Drumroll please.... That show being, One Tree Hill. 

Ok, Stop Laughing! I started watching this show when it first aired, I had just started dating my Hubby.  I was mesmorized by the characters.  I loved the North Carolina setting and just pretty fresh out of High School myself, I could relate.

I watched this show through my marriages, which it just so happened that Nathan and Hailey were getting hitched around the same time.  I watched through my first born, which Nathan and Hailey were having Jaime around the same time.  I just watched.  I laughed, I cryed (alot!) and I just became "friends" with the cast.  I hated when it ended.  I will admit one other thing- I have every season on DVD. True Story.

On a side note, I loved watching Christmas on the Bayou and seeing Hilary and Tyler together.  I know it wasn't Hailey, but it was just a reminder of what once way at Tree Hill.  I also saw another show, I am blanking on what it was, and the cast was together there also. -Darn it, old age sucks!

Man, I think I am going to have to put in the DVD's now- walk down memory lane.

(I know Hubby is so proud right now...um, not)

Miss them..

Today is my Baby's 5th Birthday!

I can not believe that my Hubby and I have a 5 year old!!  Of course, my little lady wants a FROZEN party and finding Frozen party stuff was nothing short of a NIGHTMARE!  Luckily, i was able to find plates, table clothes and such online- or we would be doing plain white paper plates- ain't that cute!
But have no fear, super Mom is here!  Found everything we needed,cheaper than the stores- now if it could just get here!

I remember that day my Girl was born like it was just yesterday!
Time is moving to fast.

Baby Girl,
I am SO proud of you and the girl you are becoming!
You are a star in the dark sky, twinkling brighter than all the rest. 

Who LOVES old school movies? How many have you watched in the past 2 days?

I love old movies that I haven't seen in a long time and I am SO pleased to say that last night I was able to catch "Practical Magic" - and yes, it made me tear up. I hate it when her Hubby dies and she wants her Aunts to bring him back.
Tonight, I was able to watch "He's just not that into you" - I think that is the title. 

Why is it that we love to catch these old flicks? 

I don't watch movies often.  I still have "The Great Gatsby" sitting in the plastic that I have had since the beginning of December. (how sad- and I LOVE Leo- he looks/reminds me of my Hubby so MUCH)

I have my all-time fav- "Sweet Home Alabama"- could NOT even tell you how many times I have watched it.  I literally know the words to each and every frame.

Hope I can find some others this weekend- makes me feel giddy!!!

30 Day Challenge- Day #20 How Important you think Education is

Day #20 How Important you think Education is

I know a lot of you are saying, seriously, she is still at this 30 day challenge.. I know, right. It seems as if it is talking FOREVER!  But we are at day 20- so we are almost there... Then, sadly enough, I have another one I am dying to break into!

Anyhooo- Education.  Well, this is going to be a shocker!  I went to college for 4 years, yes, 4 entire years, in the Education field. It wasn't until the second semester of my 4th year that I had just finished with a hard nosed professor who basically in not so nice terms, told me that I would never amount to anything being a teacher, that I broke down and panicked to say the least. 

I had almost all of my English Core knocked out and Social Studies and was super pumped- until that.  The saddest thing is that I went to class everyday, did all my assignments with my whole heart and my good friend nailed everything but never went to class and her assignments were ALWAYS late. He adored her. Blah.

So, needless to say, Point Kel.. Education was my life at one point.  I have a passion for it.  I think that it is essential to be anyone now a days.  My children started with basics with me as early as age 2 and we work with workbooks and ABC Mouse to help learn the fundamentals.  I enjoy it also. 

This fall is a big one for our family, my 5 yo will be starting Kindergarten.  I am totally scared to death!  It is a big step and I am freaking out because I miss PreK so much now with working that I am determined to work at home to be able to take her to school and pick her up and be apart of her life during her education. I think that it is important for me to be one of those Moms who is active in the schools and who can have the time to delegate towards homework help.

I have thought a lot about going back to school to finish my teaching certifications but every time I get going something comes up and it always gets pushed to the back burner.  I am like that with a lot of things. I put my own stuff on hold to make sure my family is tended to. I just started some education recently online and I am making time for it.  I think it is important to show my kids that I am trying to be a better person. I am trying to find my dreams and make them reality and it takes work and dedication, but hopefully it pays off in the end.