Friday, September 4, 2015

8 tips for Creating a Writing Routine

“Oh, you write books?” said with sheer skepticism. 
Yes. I might not be published...like for "realz" published (self published though), but I do LOVE to write. I mean, I am writing right now...aren't I?  (I am not a robot) 

But, with this [over] loaded question usually comes the time question, 
I mean, truth be told, my life is pretty busy
  • Work
  • kids
  • hubby
  • life
  • housework
  • food
  • planning
  • Did I mention WORK

Really, does the list ever stop?  So, well, basically my life is like everyone else's except I like LOVE to write on top of all that. My love is so real that I get writers guilt (yea, it's a thing)  if I go all day and don't say a word. I feel like I have lost my voice...or something?
So TRUE

But, just like that, with all those things that crowd my day, I can lose my time to write. (I joke that I should carry along a recorder because ideas POP into my head all day long)  That is when I started thinking about the BIGGER picture




(eye roll!) 

I am O.C.D. (true story) This is not a secret by any means. I love organization. Crave a place for everything. Am easily annoyed by that darn piece of lint on the floor (yes, it matches the floor) that only I seem to be able to see, quite clearly, I might add
So, how do we get organized with our writing?
 
Here are some helpful steps to help us on our way:
1. Create a Retreat. I know that you must be saying, hmph...OK.  But, this is key
You need to be at your most vulnerable to produce content that your soul bleeds out on the pages. You need to start this process by surrounding yourself with things that get you comfortable, make you happy, relaxed and inspired

A great oil to help with this, is lavender, as it is very soothing and has a calming effect on your senses. (Wellness with Kel




2. Organize your week. Buy a planner. Dedicate it to your writing only. 

Make a weekly plan on a Sunday night, in peace and quiet. It is best to treat this task like homework in many ways. 

Your week will get busy if you wait until the last minute, so take some time (perhaps while Hubby is watching the Sunday night football game
and look at your week and think about what you want to accomplish for the week, what you want to accomplish for the day and where you want to begin for the following week. 


I have a dedicated planner and a notebook that I make my schedule in for the week to help to keep me on point. I have it broke down by topic, title, date and posted to. It has helped me stay on task, be more creative and track what is working and what it not. 


3. Get Dressed. Sounds pretty obvious, right... I mean, if you want to treat your writing professionally... than ditch the P.J.'s already.  No more writing in the bed. No more watching T.V. while writing. (OK, Mom) 
The thing is...if you are serious, I mean really serious, then it is time to take this serious.  
  • Brush your teeth! 
  • Shower! 
  • Put on real clothes 

and give your writing the respect that it deserves. 

4. Keep your NOTES near you!  You need to organize everything...notes too. 
My tip for you all: 
  • Get a binder 
  • Buy some tabbed dividers
  • If you write out your notes, have a space for them
  • If you keep your notes electronic (i.e. Evernote) it is time to Hit Print. 

The key is to have everything in one nice, organized, easy to manipulate place
And, once you are organized it is important to keep them near your retreat area. I mean, obviously you want them handy (think blues clues people- write it in your Handy Dandy Notebook! ~your welcome Wendy!) 
The goal is to be able to have a reference place.
 
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So, now we are organized, but the writer's block has settled in and it is not looking like it will be letting go anytime soon.  Maybe the time has come to change things up.  
If you stay complacent for to long, things around you can grow stale, writing included. 

1. Change your Viewpoint. Instead of telling yourself that you can't do something because you have writing to do..(drag) Try telling yourself that you don't do those things because you are a writer?  Yes, it is kind of a trick on your mind, but will help your perception in the long run, when it comes to staying focused on the positive
I mean, do you even know HOW disappointed I was to find out that Big Brother was not on until after 11 p.m. last night? (I was pretty upset)  
The biggest, and best decision I have made to date is turning the T. V. off at nine o'clock and focusing solely on my writing until I have said what is needed
Some nights it is harder to do than others, but discipline helps me through this task.

2. Snack anyone?  Did you know that when you eat a small and healthy snack throughout your day it actually boosts your brain power?  
It helps you stay focused.  Fuel this snack attack with water or tea, and if you are not a fan of a snack (say what?) then try chewing a piece of gum to trick your brain into thinking that you are eating. It might not give you the brain power, but it will help to keep you alert

3. Work in Batches. I think that this is something that I had to learn, and something that I will continue to learn. 
To sit down and write...and write...and write is not the best way to produce quality work because you are just writing, not reflecting
If you want to take intervals, try setting an alarm on your oh, so, smart phone to scream "cut". Once you have finished your interval, take a five to ten minute breather. 
  • Stretch.
  • Check your Facebook page.
  • Pour yourself a cup of hot cocoa. 

Then when break time if over, set your timer and pick up where you left off. (I would suggest that you don't take the time to proof here because it can break your flow)  
The goal is to complete as many batches as you can
I batch write about four times a week. It is an excellent way for me to clear my head at the end of the week and to help me improve on my writing
The added bonus is the surprise you will get when you have finished your last day to see your progression of words produced in these batch sessions!
Plus, I always tell my girls that Practice makes perfect, right!  
Batch writing is like practicing my writing skills four times a week!

4. Create your Routine.  You need to create consistency in your life to improve your skills as a writer
Taking 10 minutes every day to write will always be better than taking one hour at the end of the week. 
I get that the goal is to write that novel that you have been dreaming about. 
It is a big dream after all. 
Well, Big Dreams take lots of work. To achieve this goal you need to make it happen

Dream Big, Work Small.  
Create a routine and chip at your dream by writing a little each day. At the end of that week you spent those batches on, look over what you have done. 
Each batch session will turn into one chapter, then two chapters, then more and more
The progress you will make will be seen in these sessions and it will come together. 
The Big Dream will be reality. 
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Thursday, September 3, 2015

Recipe: Frozen Hot Chocolate



Frozen Hot Chocolate


With the heat index and humidity up right now in Ohio, what could possibly sound better than a sweet COLD treat? 

With it being the middle (eh..closer to the end) of the week, and work, school, chores and homework clogging up any free time we would have at night for perhaps...a swim (if we had a pool...the kiddie pool does NOT count people), although it would still be rather warm to enjoy the dip. 

And then...there is that thing about it being so HOT you don't want to bake so it's living in the land of no-bake treats around here. (don't judge) 

And, frankly, there is only so much ice cream, shakes and malts you can handle before your body craves something new, something fun, something that brings out the fall/winter in you but cools you down too

If you have never had a frozen Hot Chocolate...well, you're missing out!  

It's frosty, freezy, cool, yet icy and super yummy
You get:
  • chocolate
  • creamy cocoa 
  • in a frozen version. 

Then add the: 
  • whipped topping 
  • drizzle with chocolate syrup 
and you will be dancing in heavenly goodness for the rest of the evening!


OK...now that your craving this cool treat..I will get you the recipe! 






Frozen Hot Chocolate
Ingredients
  • 2 cups milk 
  • 3 cups ice
  • 3 (1 oz) packages of hot cocoa 
  • 2 tsp  Pure Chocolate Extract
  • 1 tsp Vanilla Extract 
  • Whipped cream
  • Chocolate syrup
Instructions
  1. In a large blender, blend together the milk, ice, hot cocoa packets, chocolate and vanilla extracts on high speed until blended and smooth, about 1 minute.
  2. Pour into two tall glasses and top with fresh whipped cream and chocolate syrup. You can also drizzle the inside of your glasses with chocolate syrup before pouring.
  3. Drink up and most importantly....ENJOY!









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Six months ago, I joined a company based on my passion for providing a Non-Toxic lifestyle for my children.  
  • I bought the products.
  • I tried the products. 
  • I loved the products. 


Then...I was demoted to part time in my job and backed away from my home business future.

I didn't start the business to "sell" the products, but instead, I wanted to get the great discounts. The thing is: 

  • I love the products. 
  • I stand by the products.
  • I USE the products.


I feel good about the company and I want to share my passion for what the company does for my family, promoting good health, showing me (yes, literally!) the benefits of using the products and I want to:


I know, it took me six-months to discover what was already right in front of my face. I am a slow learner! 




Six months ago, I sat in on a conference call (with slideshow) and listened to a pitch about a company with products that promote health and wellness to be used in the home. I had a moment of enlightenment as I saw the scientific breakdowns and the energy that came from the presenter. 



I wanted to learn about the company, as it was winter and I had spent the past three months (if you follow me on Facebook, you know this) of battling one sick kid, then two sick kids and many, many doctor appointments and trips to the pharmacy. 

Maybe the products that I use in my everyday life were actually harming my kids, causing their immunity levels to be deficient and unable to built up to fight off the colds and flu's that were inhabiting our home. 


I ordered my products...that very night, after that conference call. With these questions looming around in my head. I had to find out...was there truth here?  Could the science back up the affects of curing these sick kids

I switched my kitchen cleaners first. With much skepticism, I might add.  
Moms - read the Precautionary and Caution statements on Lysol Antibacterial Kitchen Cleaner and bleach! Then learn about Sol-U-Guard. There's no need to use dangerous, harsh chemicals to fight germs! This disinfectant eliminates 99.99% of germs with the natural power of thyme, citric acid, and other 100% food-grade ingredients! It's patented, which means verifies the germ-killing formula.: Moms - read the Precautionary and Caution statements on Lysol Antibacterial Kitchen Cleaner and bleach! Then learn about Sol-U-Guard. There's no need to use dangerous, harsh chemicals to fight germs! This disinfectant eliminates 99.99% of germs with the natural power of thyme, citric acid, and other 100% food-grade ingredients! It's patented, which means verifies the germ-killing formula.I tossed out my "kitchen" wipes and moved to a plant based disinfectant. The product is shipped as a concentrate - the company does not want to sell you water, after all.  I ordered the handy spray bottle for a few extra pennies and got to mixing.  The bottle even has measurements, this Mama loves easy stuff! 
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It smells a little different. I would not say bad, actually the fam loves it, it smells very clean and fresh. It handles messes like a champ (picked up a microfiber cloth also!) and this skeptical girl started to see the effects in a days time.



OK. I can dig this.

So, my next move was the laundry. I mean, clothes are kind of a big deal in our house...and since I am blessed with two girls, it would be nice to have jeans that stand through the first one, right.

Well, this is where I am truly blown away



First, the clothes smell so clean. Then, the detergents are made to clean, not break down fibers.  Next, after the clothes wash, then dry, my lint tray is virtually empty.
I am not kidding.


No Lint.  

Now, usually, I have a hairy monster in the lint trap, so this was SHOCKING to me!

But, it doesn't stop there.









The dental products are amazing. I am in love with the toothpaste. Plaque build up has disappeared and they even have Cinnamon flavor, I mean, Close Up brand cinnamon toothpaste... MOVE OVER! (do they even make Close Up anymore?)





Vitamins are important as we get older and the line of multi-vitamins is amazing. Energy is not a problem here! Hubby and I am avid users.






My point is, the convenience is great, ships right to your door step, and the prices are on point!   The products are amazing. The benefits for health and wellness, I have seen with my own eyes. 

My family is healthier because of this opportunity.



I have found the PASSION.







I can help you create your own story with a company that has great products...




One of the best things about the company is that the income you earn can be passed to you children, in the event that something happens to you, which is something that is unique to this company.




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I can help you with product knowledge, the business, or just what the company has done for me in just the six short months that I have been lucky enough to be apart of a better life.

I would love to present to you the products, the pitch and get you as excited as I am about this opportunity and get you using the products, endorsing the products and earning a stay at home living, along with myself!

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