I usually do not do controversial post. I stay far, far away from HOT topics at all costs.
Today. Yes, Today, I have had it "up to here"!
I have family members fighting. I have friends fighting. It is crazy! It seems like no matter where we turn...someone is offended by something.
I know you have all seen these rants...and more, which shall remain nameless. They are sometimes on blog posts, social media accounts.... Sometimes they will say "An Open Letter To (you fill in the blank!)." Following this sweet dear diary opening, is a verbal assault focusing on belittling, bashing and name calling (oh no she/he didn't!) when that person does not share the same opinion.
I guess, the thing is...well, we are all individuals. We are so lucky to live in a country where there is freedom of speech, for both opinions in such case!
Guess what I am seeing though... Adults (well...TBD) fighting on social media. I see them turning words, spinning them to make them the victim (and yes, both sides are guilty), using name calling and foul language. It then escalates to derogatory racist or sexual comments directed at the person whom they do not agree with. They bully. They belittle. They, well, like I said...are not acting like Adults!
It has gotten absolutely out of control. I actually HATE my social media accounts these days because every-time I look at anything, there is a fight ensuing just under the surface. (not to mention the bad things that Nancy Grace likes to trickle in my new feed to just depress my entire day!)
I think it is time for me to put my foot down people...and tell you ALL to:
Seriously, it has gotten out of hand. Yes, we are all entitled to our own opinions, but, since when is:
You want to post things on your Social Media account, wait for a reaction, then go ape shit crazy (yea, it's totally a thing!) on those who may or may not have valid points and want to shine a little light on your one sided opinion.
No one is telling you to preach this other opinion, but perhaps it can (or can not) give you perspective into someone else's mind.
And truth be told people, the Media...they are not speaking words of bond...THEY LIE ya'll!
We are all entitled to think what we wish. We all have freedom of speech, however, that freedom does NOT mean that we do not have freedom from the consequences of our said speech!
Whew... I know what you all are thinking...I am bringing the HEAT today!
When YOU put something online, it is out there FOREVER! Let's repeat that... FOREVER! It is there for EVERYONE to see. You can't hide from it. You can't deny it once your name is associated to it. Your words are your own, so preach them carefully on that good old Social Media Network that you choose as your outlet and try to NOT brainwash others into your ideals.
It is in these moments that a keyboard is turned into a WEAPON of sorts as the words you spew are coming from a hurtful/hateful place. I don't think that this is OK at all people.
Now, to reiterate, I am NOT saying that you should agree with everyone. That is crazy talk! I don't even agree with everyone.
Are these people's lives so sad that they have nothing better to do but troll and respond to those who feel different than they do? I really just don't understand.
At the end of the day, only YOU can control what you post online and how you take the response to said post.
However, words to leave you with...
I think we all have forgotten this, which is a shame.
That's all.