Friday, January 31, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #12- Bullet your WHOLE day

Day 12- Bullet your WHOLE day

* Up at 4:20 AM - Get Hair Did/ Face on
* Pack lunch at 4:50 AM/ Start Car/ Pack Up
* Out the door and onto my commute by 5:00 AM
* At work by 5:20 AM
* Start my day 5:21AM
* Lunch at 11:00 AM
*Clock out at 1:00 PM
* Pick up my Girls at 1:30 PM
* Head home at 2:30PM
 * Snack Time at 3:00 PM
* Play Time 3:30 PM
* Get Dinner Ready 4:45 PM
* Bath time for kids 5:45 PM
* Clean up House 6:15 PM - 7:15 PM
* Story Time 7:20 PM
* Watch TV before Bed 7:45 PM
* Bed Time 8:30 PM
* Shower 9:20 PM
* Work on Blog 9:45PM
* Bed Time 10:20 PM

- I am gearing up to do this all over again tomorrow....

<3 Dr. Seuss - tweeted by @TrevorProject

Thursday, January 30, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #11- Put your IPod on Shuffle and write 10 songs that POP UP!


Ipod  nothing better than walking down the street or mowing the grass listening to your  IPOD. It really makes the neighbors wonder what is wrong with you  when your favorite song comes on.

Day #11-  Put your IPod on Shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up.

How sad (since I am a MOM and have to share my stuff with my rotten children) of course #1 is Minnie's boutique (really!)

#2 is Unfamiliar by Snowball (my old Best Friend in Cincy)
#3 is Clique by Kayne West with JayZ and Big Sean
#4 is Unconditionally by Katy Perry
#5 is Love Game by Eminem feat. Kendrick Lamar
#6 is Red by Taylor Swift
#7 is Like Whaaat by Problem feat. Bad Lucc
#8 is Love Me by Lil Wayne feat. Drake and Future
#9 is It Wont Stop by Sevyn Streeter feat. Chris Brown

and -Drumroll please------

#10 is Dark Horse by Katy Perry feat. Juicy J

***My FAVORITE song on my IPod right now is Adore You by Miley Cyrus.**

Side Note: at least none of the Frozen tracks showed up- so over it!

With a Heavy Heart I stand behind our Toledo Firefighters

Being the daughter of a recently retired firefighter, my heart is so heavy. On Sunday, 1/26/14 we lost 2 firefighters in the line of duty. One had 16 yrs and one was just hired in September. Tonight was the Last Alarm and it was so hard to watch.  I bawled my eyes out.  I come from my Mother's Dad being a Toledo Firefighter and My Dad. I am proud of them. More than they probably know.  I also worked for the city's 911 system.. My Grandpa passed away from Lung Cancer due to espestos he inhaled in a fire in the 70's.  We had a Last Call and the memories it stirs are so emotional.  The "rookie" leaves behind his wife, 3 yo daughter and 1 month old son.  It breaks my heart. 
My thoughts and prayers are with the families. My thoughts and prayers are with our Fire department. 
I am very somber tonight.  I am so Proud of my Dad and even though he us retired, to hear him talk about his firefighting days and see his enthusiasm, I know he was born to be a firefighter.  I love him.  He has always been my hero and ice always been so proud of his career. I'm happy that the brotherhood is strong and everyone stepped up.
"While others run from the fire, you run towards it.."

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #10: Discuss your first love and first kiss

Day #10- Discuss your first love and first kiss

Well, I promised to be honest and speak from my heart.  Although it would be magical and dreamy to say that my Hubby was this person, that is just not the reality of what is my life.  My first love was a boy I met when I was fourteen.  It was June, I was just getting home from a 3 week trip to Hawaii with my Best Friend.  We stayed at her family's home in Honolulu on Oahu and it was AMAZING!  I had just gotten home (literally the same day) and my Mom had been talking about this boy on the phone with me while on my Vacation and how he couldn't wait to meet me and blah blah blah.  I was like, OK- seriously I was JUST fourteen.  His parents were close to my parents and it had been that summer that they all decided to get the families together, since this boy's siblings were around the same age as my little bro.  So, back to the facts.  It was the day I got home, Mom loaded me up in the car and we headed out to Oregon to pick up my lil bro from this boys house.  That day changed me life. 

We lived pretty far from one another and spent the ENTIRE summer talking on the phone twenty four seven.  I knew him from front to back and vice versa.  We only saw each other a few times over the summer and once school started we both agreed to take it slow, talking about when we got our license we would pick back up.  I honestly loved him.  He was the first boy I ever said it to and I think that, although I was young, I really meant it.  Just F Y I - we had this weird thing that went on for 10 years.  We would see each other now and again, but we could never get it together enough to be together.  Plus, he drank to much and was a mean drunk and I was not flattered.  I knew he wasn't the "one", especially since when I went back to school after that summer I was infatuated with my Hubby- true story... (God's plan!)

That was my first L O V E .

My first kiss was another story!  It was awkward and quick and there was a fear of braces getting stuck together.  It was with a Neighborhood boy who was my boyfriend at the time.  He was such a nice boy, but it was just a kiss and no spark and soon after we parted ways, agreeing just to be friends. 

Everything was much different in both ways with my Hubby.  The first time I kissed him, I knew he was the "one."  I felt the spark that everyone always talks about.  Our story was an adventure all in its own!  This girl had to put in work with him.  He was trying to play the friend card with me- UN-Uh, I don't think so! This girl was head over heels for that boy and I knew that there was more to "US".  This is where he laughs and calls me a stalker!!!


connotativewords:

December 7, 2012
which is why I refuse to ever let you go

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #9- How you hope your Future will be like...

Day #9- How you hope your future will be like.

This is a loaded question in my opinion.  I feel like if I profess how I envision my life in the future, maybe the future will be bleak. Maybe less than bleak.  I have no idea what my/our future holds.  I have always lived in the, how is my life going to be... how will my life turn out... and the older that I get, the more I realize that hoping, dreaming, wishing is fine and all, but nothing is what it seems until your in the now.  I have been living in the now for quite some time and taking each day in stride. I also am a huge worry wart and if I get to far ahead of myself, my OCD pipes up and I get hives from thinking about how something was supposed to be in my mind and didn't happen that way. 

Two years ago we bought a house and have been remodeling and we bought it on a whim. Something we both could see that was just a pile of rubble to everyone else.  We could see our lives in this house.  We had visions and dreams that were created with the dilapidated piece that once stood before us.  Two years later, we are further along but at first snow and unusually cold weather, we both really want to move south.  Abandoned our so called dream and head for the hills, onto something else.   I guess that is why I am where I am about the future.  I hope a lot.  I hope that my children stay safe, I pray for that actually. I hope that Hubby and I stay safe and that our life remains somewhat pain free.  I hope that we are able to keep our marriage healthy and stable and continue to grow with one another.  But at the end of the day, all I can do is make sure that today was a good day.  Today I remembered to do something kind for everyone, to say my I love yous to my family, to pray for the positives of today and remain thankful for what we have today. After all, tomorrow is not a guarantee, right.
live for today 

Monday, January 27, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #8

Day #8- A moment you felt the most satisfied with your LIFE.

Well, honestly, I have had a few in my life so far- lucky me!  I would say the first day that I felt like I was most satisfied in LIFE was the first "date" I had with my Hubby.  It was spontaneous and random and felt like I was in the exact spot in the exact moment that I was supposed to be in. Who knew it would lead to where/who I am today.

My second moment was the day we tied the knot...doot doot doot Another One Bites the Dust.. You know we came into our reception to that! (We're funny peoples!)  It was a great day and we were hoping/wishing for something crazy, unplanned, and almost disastrous to happen. It didn't.. Although we did have 2 crashers that showed up in the pictures!  But the day was perfect and one that I wish I could do over and over again!  We had a great wedding and yes, I shook my ass on the dance floor!  It was AWWWESOME!

My Third and Fourth moments were when my girls were born.  Each one left a permanent imprint in my soul.  Each experience was different and held its own moments that I will NEVER forget! With my oldest, it was easy breezy!  I always tell this story and everyone laughs.  I worked up until the day and at 5:30 a.m. my water broke when I was packing my lunch, car running in the driveway, ready to head to work on the brisk February morning.  I had put a pop tart in the toaster and decided to eat it before I woke up Hubby.  I at the WHOLE thing too!   I made my calls to work and around 6 a.m. went to wake him up.  He jumped up- grabbed his clothes and we pretty much ran out the door.  I really didn't have pain, no contractions- just awkwardness from the water breakage.
So, we get to the hospital, its all laid back- positive, Weez having us a Babay!!   They get stuff moving, add a little Petocin to get her going and after a visit from my parents, who left the room to get lunch, it was SHOWTIME!  Then, at 1:58 p.m. we had us one bouncing baby girl!  She was beautiful and content.  Fast too!  We got acquainted and I remember in the middle of the night feeling that pang of anxiety knowing that Hubby was asleep and I was going to have to manage a diaper and a bottle on my own, but I did it and it was an amazing bond that was formed.

With my next baby girl it was quite a different story!  I again worked up until the day we had her. The night before Hubby and I got into a bad fight.  He had a penicillin allergic reaction and I had to run to the store at 10 p.m. to get some Benedryl.  It set off a series of events with this very pregnant girl that was NOT pleasant.  I got up in the middle of the night to get my, then, 2 year olds Pacifier from under her crib and guess what, water broke!  Its 2 a.m. and I wasn't sure what to do!  I woke up Jason who said, get your Bag, call your Dad and lets go! (Oh, Dr. Seuss has arrived!) 

We were on our way by 3:30 a.m. - yes this girl got ready, makeup on, hair did!  I am not ashamed!   Well, my little breech baby girl (Yes, we knew she was breech, we actually had gone in for a VERSION the week before- and let me tell you- if your doctor says lets try to flip the baby while invetro- say HELL NO and RUN!  I have NEVER felt pain like that before and Baby Girl didn't budge!)

So, emergency c-section it was.  I was scared to death.  I was literally shaking when they wheeled my back and luckily my Doctor is amazing, she sat on the table with me, holding me while they gave me my epidural.  Hubby finally came in and we had us another baby girl.  The cord was wrapped around her neck but she was ok.  It was an amazing day.  

Then I had two!  Each with her own story.  Hubby really bonded alot more with our little one.  He was the first to see her, hold her, feed her and really take care of her.  I will never forget his face with each of our girls. It was amazing to see him transform before my eyes. 

I have had a lot of satisfying moments since then, but those ones are the ones that are imprinted on my being.  I hope to have many, many more in my lifetime.
 

Are you content with what you have?  Ideas for finding 'enough' and building a satisfying life.

Sunday, January 26, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #7

Day #7- Your Zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality.

I am a wild, roaring Leo.  So Let's Break it down:

Leo Strength Keywords:

- Confident
- Ambitious
- Generous
- Loyal
- Encouraging
(I agree with all of these!  I am confident and very ambitious.  I love to do things for others and I am always loyal and always encourage others to push harder and better themselves.)

Leo Weakness Keywords:

- Pretentious
- Domineering
- Melodramatic
- Stubborn
- Vain

I do agree with these also.  I am VERY Stubborn and somewhat vain- I will NOT answer my door unless my face/hair is DID...

Leo and Independence:

Leo is very independent but they need something to control and someone to admire them and appreciate them. They are fully capable of being greatly successful on their own but they are much happier if they have an audience and a following of people who look up to them. They would prefer not be alone.
 This too, is very true.  I will stubbornly do stuff by myself and although I am learning not to search for that notice or acknowledgment, I usually hope that my Hubby notices, or so forth and will ask if I do not get the reply I am seeking.
I also like being alone but I prefer to be with company.

Leo and Friendship:

People are attracted to Leo's zest for life and their warm spirit. They have the ability to lift up one's spirits and provide encouragement when times are rough. Their enthusiasm attracts people, Leos are social butterflies, not because they want to be but because people always naturally gravitate and surround the Leo. Leos are very difficult people to not like, they are usually fairly balanced, realistic people. They never dwell on the past and they will think you are strange if you do. Some Leos might be too caught up in themselves and be very self-centered but they are never too self-absorbed to help anyone who needs it. They pamper their friends and treat them well. A Leo is the ultimate friend. They do not hold a grudge and they are very forgiving. They have respect and understanding of people's differences.

All I can say is BAM!  SO MEEEE!!!

Leo and Business:

Business dealings are easy and successful for Leo, if they are in command and control. This can cause conflict in the workplace should the Leo not be in a position of superiority, but they usually get there eventually thanks to their powerful drive to succeed, in other words, they are excellent leaders because this is their kingdom they have to control, and they do it well. Leo has an amazing ability to get along with people and they work best in a group as opposed to alone. They can be very diplomatic in a group setting and can delegate people well, however Leo will not take orders. They need to give orders but with their enthusiasm and cheerfulness, other people do not have a problem taking orders from a Leo because they are never condescending and they treat others with respect and equality. Leos are full of drama, flair and extravagance and this reflects in the business world. They make an impact, they make a difference in the workplace and help to keep the parts moving in sync and iron out any problems before they arise. If the business fails, that means that Leo fails and they are extremely determined not to fail. Leo is the most extravagant sender of all astrology signs. They will not over do it but they will surround themselves with luxury as much as possible. They will never settle for second best.

I do agree with this. I am an over achiever at work and consistently get praise in all my reviews.

Leo Temperament:

Leo loves the new and extraordinary, they despise dull, regular routines and if this is what they are faced with, they will simply create their own drama and excitement. This makes Leo prone to stir up a situation out of nowhere just for something to keep their vivacious temperament satisfied. Leo has an amazing ability to bounce back from any feelings of despair or unfortunate events. They do not like to be unhappy, it hurts their pride so they will take matters into their own hands and make things right again. Leos could come into conflict with other powerhouse type of people who will not take orders and not give an inch, Leos will not budge their opinion, they will understand and accept opinions of others but they do not take well to people to try to impose their beliefs on them. Leo most often have the temperament of a demanding, spoiled child but this is only shown if someone steps on the boundaries of their kingdom. They react this way because of their territoriality.

This is true- I am stubborn and routines make me grumpy!  (so do kids who DO NOT listen!)


Leo Deep Inside:

Leos are extremely sensitive but they hide that very well. Leos love praise and flattery, their egos demand respect and adoration. Leo is all about pride. This can cause them to be self-centered but the warmth of the Leo heart keeps it under control. If Leo's audience (otherwise known as their friends) do not provide the needed appreciation, Leo is too proud to ask for it and they will suffer a hurt ego, but no one will ever know and they will suffer in silence. The secret of the Leo is that they need to be needed.
(SO ME)

Leo in a Nutshell:

Leo is the lion, this well suited symbol represents Leo very well. They possess a kingdom which they protest and cherish. The are high esteemed, honorable and very devoted to themselves in particular! The kingdom could be anything from work to home to a partner, whatever it is, you rule it. Leo is always center stage and full of flair, they enjoy basking in the spotlight. A Leo always makes their presence known. Leo are full of energy that acts like a magnet for other people. Others are attracted to Leo's wit, charm, and what they have to say for they speak of things grand and very interesting. Leo will never settle for second best. They want only the best which can cause lavish excessive spending habits as they enjoy their life of luxury, which is all to easily justified by the grand and magnificent Leo! Public image is very important to Leo, with luxurious possessions and ways of life, this keeps the public image in high standing. They will do whatever it takes to protect their own reputation. Leos are very generous, kind and openhearted people. If a Leo is crossed, they will strike back with force but they are not one to hold a grudge, they easily forgive, forget and move on. Leos are always trying to make things right in the world, they have larger then life emotions and they need to feel like they have accomplished something at the end of the day. They react to situations with action instead of sitting back and thinking about it, they are not impulsive however because they look at the future and consider consequences of their actions.

(about sums it up.)



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For my Hubby:

Leo Love, Sex and Relationships

What it's like to date a Leo Woman:

The first step is to give her praise and adoration. The relationship will never work if she does not receive this from you. Do not look at other women when you are with her, she has to be the only one in your eyes. The thought of competition with other women completely turns her off, for she is marvelous and grand and better then any other woman (in her eyes)! Be prepared however to compete with other men. She attracts men, deliberately or not, because of her dazzling personality. She makes a good partner because she gives undying affection and love and makes you feel really mood about yourself. She is kind and supportive with an adventurous streak, she is always fun to be with. Leo woman will dominate,. But not completely for she still needs the man to lead the way and give her the desired sense of approval, she looks up to her man. Leo woman is perfect for the man who is affectionate and has a strong character but not too controlling. She needs someone who is passionate about everything in their life and who strives for the best in everything, because so does she.



Leo Erogenous Zone:

The back is Leo's most sensitive area. Most Leos have a well defined muscular back, compliment them on it while you lightly scratch your fingernails from the base of the neck down to their buttocks. They love a back rub or massage because to them it is being pampered. Get scented massage oil and give them a sensual massage and it is guaranteed to set the mood for a night of passion!

Sex With Leo:

First impressions would tell you that Leo is all about the kinky and novelty, but that is not so. They are deeply sensual and passionate and enjoy posh surroundings, such as candles and scented oils and lots of affectionate physical contact such as massages and rubbing. They like sex to be familiar, not necessarily routine, but they like to know what's going on. This is because Leo always has to be the best and if there is a suggestion or something offered that they have never done before, they would rather pass on the chance then attempt it and be only satisfactory. Leo has mastered the moves he know, so do not be disappointed with the lack of novelty ad variety, because Leo is very good at what they can do, they are the best.


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I think I am a great representation of my sign, which I am VERY proud of!  My class ring from High School even had the Lion underneath the stone!

Wait, does this mean I am Normal??




 

Get HIP Girl! {Instagram}

I am way behind in the times here!  I am hip to twitter and have my account bragging about this here little blog of mine- but recently I decided it was time to take my photos to Instagram- DUH, right!

So here it is:
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Let's have some fun!!!

Saturday, January 25, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #6

Day #6- Write 30 Interesting Facts about Yourself

Oh, this ought to be fun! 
1) My name consists of 2 names "put" together by my parents- Katheryn and Kelley.
2) I am very, very shy.  I have really started coming out of my shell since I have had children.
3) I was a Freshman in High School when I first saw my Husband.  I knew when he would walk by my locker and would always be there waiting. I was in love with him at 14! (Sometimes I think you just know when you meet "the one.")
4) I never thought I would have daughters.  I always thought I would have boys- HOCKEY MOMS RULE!
5) I LOVED my Eclipse- even though it was a piece. I was so sad when it kept blowing the head gasket.
6)  I love my Bulldog but wish I had a furry dog. (Chow particularly or a Pom Ski!)
7)  I want to be a STAY AT HOME Mom, so bad! I want to work from home but be at HOME. (Hey, a girl can always dream and keep trying, right!)
8) I went to Hawaii at the age of 14, by myself with my BFF.  We stayed with her Fam, who my Fam knew and it was awesome!
9) I Love THE FAST and the FURIOUS- especially the 2nd one- Tokyo Drift was Awwsome.

10)  I am ADDICTED to Pepsi. (enough said!)
11)   I want to have horses one day. Gypsy Vanners Please!
12)   I was a preschool teacher while in college. I taught 3 year olds and loved them. 
13)  I dislike the ages 2 and 3- even though {see above} - maybe cause they are my own kids?
14)  I love the things my kids say!  {Yes, please see above} Everyday they have something new and exciting going on in their little heads. I could sit at the breakfast/lunch/dinner table with them and listen to their stories all day. 
15)  When my kids DON'T listen, it makes me go CRAZY (which mine do NOT listen EVER!)
16)  I have endured hell.  (The past 2 years of my life have been terrible. Not between Hubby and I but between Hubby and I vs. the parents.)
17)  I secretly WISH we had been serious and moved to Surprise, AZ.  We even found a house but decided to buy Gray Gables and have no House Payment. (Um, Mistake!)
18)  I hate WINTER. (I say this as we currently have 12* weather and SNOW and winds that are causing a White OUT- I can't even see my neighbors house and they are maybe 15 feet away.)
19)  I LOVE my Husband. (You know I do, Hubby!)
20)  Are we there yet? (Sorry couldn't resist) - Seriously though, I like Turtleneck sweaters.  I think Hubby HATES them, but they are so comfortable and snugly. 
21)  My Hubby bought me $200 shoes for Christmas and I almost fainted. Yes, they are awesome Nike's and brand stinking new for 2014- but I am SO not a Fashion plate! (But, I DO LOVE them- they kick ass when working out with all that AIR!)
22)  My Hubby also got me $75 to Vicki's Secret and its like a hole is burning in my pocket.  Cant wait to get new Bras and Panties!
23)  I am desperate to work at home.  I am working on a class right now to learn copy.  I prayed to God to help and feel like I am doing what I need to in order to be with my Girls at HOME.
24)  I am scared to death for my 4 (almost 5) yo to start Kindergarten.  I wish I could Home School her.
25)  I love to cook.  I can't wait until my Kitchen is finished.
26)  I am still living in a house that is COLD, has no kitchen floor and still don't have an oven/stove.  I do however kick ass at cooking with a Toaster Oven and single plug in burner.  Don't mess with me- I can still make a MEAN Chocolate Chip Cookie! 
27)  I love to sleep.  I don't get much of it, but I do love it. (today I snuck in 2 naps - SHAIKH!) 
28)  I hate it when my kiddo's are sick.  We are battling a bug currently and it breaks my heart when they wake up crying because they cant breathe out of their noses.
29) My wedding vows had an exception in them- NO MINI VANS.  I have a Mom Van - which is my Tahoe and I love her. 
30) Duntuntuntaaaahhh- I went to college to be a Teacher.  I had a bad- BAD Professor in my 4th year who tore me down (did i mention I was Shy?) - and I bailed!  I took my last year getting an Interdisciplinary studies Bachelors degree that makes it very difficult for me to get a Job.  I am a heck of an Administrative Assistant but secretly wish I had stuck it own- got a backbone and make my Teaching degree happen. (um, summers off yo!) But it is what it is, i was chosen for a different path and I am still trying to find it. (Work at home..) 

Now, that is  my thirty.  I really wonder if they are interesting, but that is Me.  Uncensored and all.  (yea, I'm a little crazy, right!) 

Have fun ya'll!!


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Life Hacks

I love life hacks. . ght now I have a.osh darn canker sore where my lip meets my gums on the bottom and IT'S KILLING ME. I have used honey, which dulls t h e pain.  I have used a (don't laugh) green tea bag (yes Hubby had a field day with this!)  And nothing happened.  I tried a mixture of equal parts water and perioxide, nothing thing changed.

My last read was salt.  Um OMFG.  You don't know pain until you put salt on a wound. I also tried a salt water rinse. Yet it's day 4 and hard to talk or eat. It just hurts. 

So I'm onto a tums.  Here's hoping it works. Plus a lot of other stuff on thus sheet too to give a try! 




**update: it worked.  Its almost gone .  thats Crazy!!!

Friday, January 24, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #5

Day #5- A time you thought about ending your own life.

Ohwee, serious up in here!  I can honestly say that I have never thought about ending my own life. I do often think about God taking me out of this world and it scares the shit out of me (sorry to be so Frank, but that is the God's honest truth).  I actually feel like crying to even admit I have those thoughts because if God were to take me, I have so many questions, like who would raise my girls, who would take care of them and make sure they are cuddled, loved and all those things that Mommies provide.

I have, however, been a support system for two suicidal people in my life.  I try to be the voice of reason the best that I can. I think the world would be cold if everyone took their life in their own hands.  We are meant to struggle and I live by the logic that every thing that we/I go through is God's test to make us/me stronger and that I am never handed more than I can handle- no matter how much I think I can't handle it. It remains true because we have been handed some tough cards over the years and at the time it feels like we are sinking into a black hole, but yet, somehow we prevail.

I think that there is more to this life than money, things, and what us, Americans, think make the world go round.  I have really tried to get our life to a simpler place.  I have learned how to cut costs, live on budgets, but I also know how to splurge, especially on my children. I just think that the ultimate thing in life is something money cant buy, its love, companionship and someone to be in your corner.  For me, that would be my Hubby for sure.  Without him, I would be very imbalanced.  He is definitely my rock, my best friend and my soul mate.  I do Thank God everyday for this life. And, its not always easy, but I am I still VERY Grateful!

So, I am here, on this Earth and hope to be to see my kids grown, and their kids grown. I guess that is the ultimate goal. I am not going anywhere, God willing...

Thursday, January 23, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #4

Day #4- Your views on Religion

After my trying day today, this is the perfect topic!  I am a Non-Practicing Lutheran.  I have not been to church since I was very little. There was a turn of events that happened with my family and the church, in which they no longer attended. But, I did go there when I got married to meet with the Pastor and she married us off site.

I have NEVER read the bible. Shocking, right!  I am actually working on the Children's Bible with my Kiddo and really enjoying it.  I do, however, believe in God, a God and I believe in Heaven and Earth and Souls and so forth.  I have set a goal to read the Bible this year along with the Children's Bible with my oldest. This was her choice, of course.

So, after my very trying evening, which is still trying as we speak, I have sought out God's patience and his helping hand with my youngest child who did not sleep last night and is not sleeping, thus far, tonight.  Yes, I am one exhausted Momma today.  I was up with both of my kids, as my oldest seems to be coming down with a cold, I hope! I also had to get up at the crack of dawn to go to work, as I do in the coming morning, again. I am grumpy and tired and feeling very alone right now.  Except for my conversations with God, of course.

Well, I am signing off, I am going to try to get some shut eye before I get awoken again!

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

30 Day Challenge- Day #3

Day #3- Your views on Drugs and Alcohol

Oh well let's just jump into these great controversial topics- what do you say?

My views on Drugs and Alcohol will differ from a lot of people in the world, I am sure. I grew up in a normal family. My Dad was a Firefighter and Carpenter on the side, my Mom was a City Employee. They were casual drinkers.  I experimented with Alcohol at fifteen.  I actually drank a few times at the bars when I turned twenty one and stopped. I always joke because I say that I got all the drinking out of my system before I was twenty one- and party hard did I !

Well, when I was fourteen I lost a dear cousin to drinking and driving.  He fell asleep at the wheel of his car one evening due to being intoxicated. This left an imprint on my being.  I NEVER would drink and drive.  I was always careful and cautious but I also liked to have a good time.

Today I choose not to drink. I have had a few nights of fun here and there but when I started getting serious with my Hubby , who also does not drink, I just moved on.

As for drugs, I have experimented in the past.  I just grew up.  I didn't do anything more than Marijuana.  I don't like pills, period, so that was out of the question.  I worked for our local police department and they brought in the drug force, where we got to see each drug on the street and all I have to say is that was disgusting and opened my eyes to a lot of things.

I live a clean life today.  I am a Mom after all.  It is funny though, I ask myself a lot how I am going to approach these topics with my girls.  I am a pretty laid back person and with my own Brother, I would not discourage him from smoking Pot, instead I educated him the best I could and left the decision up to him. 

I think with the rate that America is going and having 2 states legalizing Marijuana , we might be legal by the time my girls are old enough to know what it is. 

I think that my approach will be a to understand what it is like being a teenager and educate as best I can.  The one thing I want to steer clear of is saying No, Don't or You Cant.  I rebelled really bad, as you can read above, because I had a thumb over me and I know that it made me push back more and do the opposite.  I try to have a different parenting approach overall.

I am not one to preach about Drinking and Drugs.  In fact, my Hubby and I have many friends who still do both and we would still hang around them. This is strictly my life choice and I in, no way, shape or form, put that on anyone else buy myself.

Tune in ttomorrow for Day #4- Your Views on Religion.

Cute idea for party with drinkers and non drinkers

30 Day Challenge- Day #2

Day #2- Where you'd like to be in 10 years...

To sit and think about this question, today, it seems like ten years is so far away, but I remember saying that twelve years ago and time flies when your having fun!

In Ten years my girls will be 15 and 13- OMG!  I imagine that our house will sound a lot like it does today- with a Mommm and a Nooo - of course the Ughhh... and we are only 4 (well almost 5!).  My Big One will be getting ready to drive, she will probably do well because she is currently a bad back seat driver!  My Little One will be getting ready for High School and I hope she is still sweet and loving.  I hope that Jason and I are enjoying life- damn we will be old by then!  I hope life is good, smooth and less complicated than it is now. 

I would LOVE to be working at home by then, but only God knows what is in the cards for me.  I imagine we will still be here- as much as I don't want to be, we are living house payment free- hopefully Gray Gables is complete and we are just enjoying family life in the country!

I can't complain because our life is always changing for the better and if we continue on this path, it will continue to grow better the more stable we are, but again, it all depends on God's plan for us and our family!


10 years from now

Monday, January 20, 2014

The 30 Day Challenge- Day #1

I found this 30 day Challenge and thought it would be F U N!

Day 01- Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is

Well, I am Obviously, NOT Single, but my current relationship is finding bliss.  I have been married to my Best Friend for 7 years now, this past November.  We have been together, as a couple for twelve years, this past September and have faced every challenge that God has put in our paths, good, bad, happy, sad, and even downright UGLY!

Our Relationship started off as a friendly relationship.  I knew that he was more than just a Friend, I felt it in my heart the first time I saw him, which was when I was a Freshman and he was a Sophemore.  I was a very shy girl, but I had my path and knew when to be at my locker to see him walk past in the mornings.  Yes, he calls me a stalker!

By Christmas, 2001, I had a steady boyfriend and our relationship moved on from there.  We ended up moving in together in 2003 with his Dad. It was crazy!  The craziest thing I have ever done, and yes,  I moved out at one point, and moved back in after a week... Learning curves. 

By 2005, we were moving into a house we bought and by 2006 we were planning our wedding.  Life has moved at a rapid pace since then! 

In 2009 we welcomed our first baby girl.  That is when the MAJOR challenges arrived.  Having a Baby Changes EVERYTHING- this is NO Joke. Nothing changes your relationship like adding another person to it!   As crazy as it was, we adjusted, argues, spoke our minds, said stuff we shouldn't have and found the meaning of our love and fought to keep it together. 

By 2011, we welcomed our second baby girl and life was just easier.  Yes, we still had good days and bad days, and having two little people to look after was full of obstacles, we managed to stick together and find a way to make it all work.

If I said that my life was easy and daisy popped up everywhere I stepped, I would be SO lying!  Its not easy.  Even today, it is NOT easy.  I have just learned through age that I pick my battles, I find a common ground and I hold my tongues unless I just can't find anything to hold it with.  My kids still present the biggest arguements.  I try to muster patience, understanding and compassion and Hubby has a hot temper and a big voice.  My girls are instant cryers and I, as a Mommy go right to protect them!  This is my newest challenge and I have been working hard to remind myself that Hubby and I are on the same team and have the same common goals with the girls, protect and teach, help them learn and understand right from wrong. 

My latest journey is the journey to finding out Gods definition of a Good Wife because over the years, the kids, the houses, the jobs and life in general I feel like I have been less than a dutiful wife.  Hubby and I are facing our latest challenges as a couple due to the fact that we are working opposite shifts, crazy hours and are literally passing on another in the day.  We are only having one day a week to spend any kind of quality time together but due to him working the night before, he sleeps half of that day away.   The most important thing that we are finding is just keeping our lines of communication opened at all times and complimenting one another in the passings we are having.

We will prevail, we always do.  If there is a will there is a way and we both know that this is a snipet of time in the grand sckeme of life. 

Our 2014 Goals are to get this house together (somehow with such limited time) and finally get our family back to living.  We are saving up for Disney, hopefully in 2015, if God is willing!



Check back tomorrow for Day 02: Where you'd like to be in 10 years.



Gearing up for Valentines Day

This year is going to be an exciting Valentines Day!  My kiddo is in Pre-K and we have stuff to make/bake for her classmates! I love the crayons, melted and shaped like hearts, I also printed some stuff for Frozen Valentines, which Ms. almost 5 YO loves, right! So, I think we are going to have to meet in the middle- maybe do both? I guess we will have to see how much time this Momma has! 
I also want to do some cool stuff for the FAM too- found this picture and think the sentiments are adorable:



Thank you Pinterest!






























                 





valentine's day countdown

Ooh- this is cute too!

Free Valentine's Day Printables


Check out Shanty2Chic blog- GREAT blog BTW!

Oh, I can already feel the LOVE!







Saturday, January 18, 2014

Prayers sent

Today has been a trying day for me. I found out this morning that a friends father lost his battle with lung cancer and my heart is very heavy.
This was all my friend had left and I fear that he will drink himself to his own grave now not having his Dad.  It happened so fast too. 
I have said a prayer and extended our deepest sympathies and an open door for anything he might need as did a lot of others and can only hope for the best.  It just has left me feeling very sad inside. 
Death is never easy. 

Titanic ..tear

Ugh I just love this movie. I started to watch the run on AMC tonight and couldn't stop.  Now my mascara is running and I cant  wait for the exhibit to come to our city in March.
PS Leonardo Di Carpio, I still love you. You remind me so much of my Hubby from mannerisms to looks. I don't know how Rose was able to go on because if I lost my hubby I would be lost too. 

Friday, January 17, 2014

30 day AB Challenge. U down? I'm in.

I I I I workout...

Oh yea. I've been working it out all week with my elliptical and T25 and trust me, I'm feeling it!  I've been using the fitness pal app and tracking my food too and I'm rocking it. My pants are fitting looser, my stomach is flatter and I am losing a lot of that bloat. Plus I feel good. Tired yes, but good. I can feel my self confidence rising. I ran out of shakology though and don't have the $$ to buy it without being a coach right now, but slimfast is filling my breakfast and dinner slots and I am drinking a lot of water. 

My goals: for 2014 I just really want to focus on health, nutrition and fitness. I want to feel good and actually want c to b wear my swim suit this year without being self conscious.  I also want to work on this to help my other issues having to do with image and intimacy.  I also love the example I am setting for my girls. They love to do their workout next to me  while I do mine!

I think tonight I am going to start the 30 day ab challenge. If your looking for determination I'll do my best. I'm in it to win it and fitting it into my day which means I'm serious!

I I I I I workout!!!

FROZEN Friday

We are planning a big 5th birthday party for Ms 4yo. Of course she is obsessed with Frozen and wants everything frozen and of course the stores are sold out, online is sold out, everything is sold out. I can't even find a cake plate-geesh.

So I am relaying my findings to my Mom today and Ms 4yo says "Mom, we can just do snowflakes and light blue plates." She is sooo awesome.  It does mean Mommy is going to have to get more creative but I think I can handle it. It's not like a lot of kids will be here, just mostly family. Hopefully next year she can have a kid bash since she'll be going to school with kids who live around here.

This Birthday is a big one though. Can't believe she is going to be 5 already. Where does the time go?

I am going to tackle cake pops to send to her school for her classmates. It will be my first time using the cake pop maker and I am going to attempt a sugar snowflake to put on the front of the cake pop. More details/pictures to come. I'm scared! 

Anyways here is to my feat of finding Frozen stuff to make my kids 5th b day a memorable one.  (Tear, sniffle)

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Wacky Wednesday

Picking up the girls today, we saw some visitors in my Parents backyard...They were being very cautious and careful and looking up at us from the yard. 
The girls loved it! 

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Getting Fit 2014

I have been such a slacker the past few days!  But after cookie dough I felt like it was due time to get my ass in gear.
So tonight it was cardio T25, 5 minutes on the elliptical moving over 60 and 20 crunches with 20 reverse crunches.

Grabbed a quick shower and now I'm unwinding, getting sleepy. 

# workit

Keep me motivated while I keep you motivated. Time to start feeling healthy, looking healthy and getting fit. 

Friday, January 10, 2014

Tonight I am...

A root beer drinking (Damn it's sooo good too) cookie Baking Mama.

I wrangled my kids after work, came home to disastrous rooms, got them and the kids cleaned up, fed, and threw a load of laundry into my unthawed washing machine and while my kids were going nuts and I was slowly starting to be the Mom who yells, it hit me. Cookies!

So I calmly got out my flour, sugar, brown sugar, butter, eggs, baking soda and vanilla and whipped up my batter.  I put in it the fridge, continued helping the girls with their mess, calmly!  Put a bakers dozen in and they had a cookie snack, in which 4yo gave me a Giada 10!  Go me.. 

Now they are sound asleep and I'm drinking some yummy root beer, making cookies! 

Next stop is a workout. Um, I think I ate a little too much raw dough... opps..

Thursday, January 9, 2014

It's a McDonalds kind if night..

Do you ever have lazy Mommy days?

Today is one of those days for me.  Back to work I went today and boy was I busy. So glad it went fast but once I'm outta there I am whooped! 

But, onto my other job.  My full time gig I have going on and as soon as I lay eyes on my kiddos I am so tired!  So we pick up and head onto our 20+ minute drive home, as I struggle to keep my eyes opened and on the road!

Then we walk in and the utter chaos begins!  By 4:30 I am hearing "Mom, I'm hungry.  What's for dinner?"  It's crazy.

Well tonight my first floor is reading 52 degrees and even with a salamander heat up its nothing shy of, well, FREEZING!

So it was a, quick kids, jump in the car were going to McDonalds.  2 chicken nuggets later we are home and camping out in my youngest room with the space heater, of course!

Hopefully I make it a little fun and memorable. We don't eat out a lot and when we do I try to make it a big deal.

Caught Otis, our Bulldog sniffing the dry container.  He is a good boy! 

Guess I am going to have to workout tonight too.  Gotta set a good example!!!!

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Fun for 2014

Love=1
Power=2
Honesty=3

For me for 2014.  Hopefully it's strengthen my Love with my Hubby and Children.

Power to be strong during my trying times in this new house . ( yes 5 minutes ago I did have a melt down. My house is FREEZING because it's -6 outside and my Damn water pipes froze. No kitchen sink and I spilled chicken juice out of the darn food saver bag all over the floor. Then there is no water in our shower and I'm losing it because my laundry is growing by the day.  I want to move back to my old house. Boo.

And Honesty I think to relay my feelings to my hubby.

Yes I am crying on the floor in my room next to a heater...

Operation DEEP FREEZE!!

Well today I made a huge mistake.  I got up, got ready, and headed out in the -16 degree weather to work.  I get there and my co- worker sends me a text that it's a level 3 snow emergency and Noone I'd supposed to be out.  We'll our work still wasn't calling us off, so I was like, ok I'm here. 
Then it closed at 7 am. I got as much done as I could and asked to head home at 830 am.  Well right before I was leaving, the Super in charge asks about the emails I have to load.  I can't leave until they are loaded.  I'm furious. 
So at 11 am I finally get to leave.  My poor truck is FROZEN and making terrible noises as I am driving 25 mph on sniw covered ice. 
I made it home 40 minutes later and couldn't of been happier.  Now my hot water is none existent, my house is so cold and I'm ready for 90 degree weather!

We should a moved to Arizona...

Sunday, January 5, 2014

Operation Potty Training!

It has been nothing short of an uphill battle with my youngest and potty training!! She is stubborn as all get out and at 2 1/2 it's about gosh darn time she give a little.  I stopped buying diapers in June. Pull ups and night time diapers is what she has been wearing and a lot of nudee booty time.  The kid still pees on the floor or in her big girl panties. She will cry, walk like a cowgirl, but will repeat and repeat and repeat. Seriously!  The doctor says don't get upset, encourage for next time, blah, blah ....Well the nice train left yesterday and we got down to business!!
We were strong, asked a lot,  had her pick out her big girl panties and  went sans pants. Guess what..my BIG GIRL went potty in her big girl potty everytime!  Whoo hoo!  I'm such a proud Mom right now. We are on day #2 and yes, we had an accident this morning but oddly enough it just made her more determined!
Now she is using it on her own!  Go Big Girl. I knew you'd get it sooner or later!!! (Ok, so maybe Mom did promise a trip to build a bear if she gets potty trained!  :) )

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Latest Read... Dark Witch - Nora Roberts

I would like to Pre-Face with the fact that I LOVE TO READ!  I wish I had more time in my life to just READ!  I think that when I read, I am setting a good example with my girls, like excersiging and eating right.

I would also like to say that I am a HUGE Nora Roberts FAN!  I love her, all her books, her as Nora Roberts or J D Robb- I just love the way she writes and the way she puts the pictures in my mind.  I hope that I can one day write just like her and create the vivid images in my readers minds!

So, the latest book, that I pre-ordered back in April and finally got around to downloadning ( yes, it came out in November, I know!) is Dark Witch.  It is AH-MAZING!  I am alomst finished, and kind of taking my time because I know I will be disappointed when its over and I have to wait for the next book.  I love the series books.  I connect with the characters on such a personal level and by the end I feel like I know that characters.  This book is NO DIFFERENT!  I am in love with Iona and Boyle.  I love, love, love the name Branna or Branaugh!  I love the Magick aspect and Ireland and the images that I have in my mind.  I can't wait to finish, but then I don't want to finish it!

If you have an opportunity to read this book- PLEASE DO!  If you have the chance to read any Nora Roberts Books- please read!  You will see what I already know about her as an author!

Happy Reading!

Update:  just finished this book and it was a great book. I can't wait for the next book to come out. A must read!!



Storm in the Northwest...

I went out today.  I don't know if I have said to much, but we have been blasted with a winter storm- ehh, I mean a series of winter storms... We have another big one coming our way tonight into tomorrow, and I guess by Tuesday, our windchill is supposed to be -50, WHAT? Get out of town... I wish, right!
The thing is, I got stuck in my own dang driveway on Friday- had to drive Hubby's 4x4 truck, because my 4x4 Tahoe decided to have 4x4 issues this winter- GREAT! Right!!!

So, the word on the street is that we are expecting 12 inches- why didn't we move to Arizona again? Damn it!

Basically, if this happens, lock the doors because I'm stranded! We currently have gigantic snow drifts. 

Well, I decided that we needed to stock up on some items before we can't leave our house- like everyone else in my town, it seems.  Off to Meijer Miss 4 YO and I go, to a semi-packed parking lot.  I should have known it was trouble when there was only 1 shopping cart in the cart carrel, right? (Blonde Moments!)

We do our shopping, only to find the end of the line (s) clear to the back part of the store- NO JOKE!  So, I was like, OK.  Kid, we can do this, it isnt going to take that long- I have until 3:30, then Hubby has to go to work (he has L.O. with him) - 25 minutes later/to long, we dropped the cart and ran- our line didnt move an inch!  We exit as my kid loudly says, "Mom, why did we leave our cart behind?" - she got a SHH and on we went!

Ridiculous!!  I made a quick decision to march into Walgreens, grab a few of our items to hold us over and deal with NO LINES- YESS!!  In and Out works for me.

Guess we are gearing up for an apocolypse too people!  Hopefully the sun will shine again and melt the snow, unless they know something I dont...

Winter Storm Hercules

I made a Website- WHAT?

Well, I made a website today.  I was bored?  I don't know if that works or not, but I really want to work from home and they say that is a first step.  The thing is, it is a plus to have a website when trying to work from home? Who Knew right? 

So, I jumped aboard, and made a website!
~~~~GO ME~~~~~~

Of course, it has to do with my home base- this blog, DUH!~  This is my baby, after all.

So, if you want to check it out- trust me, it isn't anything special, but it is what it is!

And, most importantly, it was SUPER easy! (I'm a beginner tech savvy individual here!)


Check it out at: 
https://sites.google.com/site/lifeatgraygables/ 


 

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Are you up for a fitness challenge?

Well I'm a day late but on a new fitness journey!

I started my day with a Peanut Butter and Nutella shakology shake! 15 minutes on the elliptical and starting a Flat Belly workout and the 30 day Squat Challenge.

I am determined to tone. I am also going to incorporate my T25 but gradually. 

So bare with me here.  I'm going to be doing some encouraging here while I am on my journey..

Best of Luck.

Snowed In.

Wow, we got hit with some snow. I walked outside this morning, bright and early, to snow banks up to my knees! I worried because my 4 wheel drive in my beloved is not working. So after some rocking, smooth talking and praying, she pulled free.  We were on the really bad roads, well on our way.  Until, I am crossing the I280 bridge and sliding towards the median.  Thank God for traction control because I was fish tailing bad.  The wind was kicking pulling me All over.  Heart beating out of chest, I finally pulled into my work drive, parked, praised my Tahoe and headed into my full time work.
After having 8 hours to settle down I made the decision not to take highways home so 45 minutes later I finally made it home to get stuck in my own dang driveway in a bank of snow as tall as my Hubby's honda!
Thank goodness I put in for a PTO day for tomorrow because if I can't get unstuck I will be staying home, stranded!!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

January 1st 2014

Happy 2014 New Year. Went to bed way tolate, 4am- ugh.  My 2 yo decides she is ready for the day at 530. Um, I don't think so...
We all had to get up and out by 10am for a family breakfast.  I was grumpy.  While I got up with the girls and not only got my drunken sleepy self ready but my lil ladies as well, while the Hubby slept in.  Grrr. 
But, breakfast was nice. We got home and Hubby hit me with picking out my cabinet handles of which I said ok, if you put the elliptical together.   He said yes.
After a hellish  visit to Menard ' s we finally found the ones. My day has been trying to say the least. The handles look awesome though.

Now I am exhausted!  Getting ready to turn in and can't wait. But our kitchen looks ah-mazing.  HUBBY got some of the upper cabinets up yesterday and we rang in the New year putting our dished away. I just finished up and I'm thrilled! It's finally really starting to feel like home.

Now,  if it would stop snowing!!!

2014!!

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